I Support My Partners Decisions
I am a take-charge kind of person and I truly believe that my assertiveness is one of my best personality traits. However, I realize that my opinionated character may sometimes be overwhelming to my spouse.
For this reason, I make a conscious effort to support the decisions of my partner. Rather than hearing what my partner has to say and then chiming in with a suggestion, I simply listen and try my best to be supportive.
I admit that, at times, I may not fully grasp why my other half makes certain decisions. And the method behind the madness often remains a total mystery to me. But, if it makes my partner happy and it is a safe and responsible decision, it is beneficial to support him and the decision he wishes to pursue.
Relationships thrive when a concrete support system is in place. I make my spouse feel safe to share with me even the craziest ideas. I accept him as a person and feel that his input is valuable, even when he disagrees with me.
I seek to create an environment where my partner feels secure. We share ideas openly and avoid overly judgmental or critical comments. When I must disagree, I do so in a respectful manner that communicates that my partner is valuable and important to me.
Today, I realize that supporting my partner is more important than getting my own way. I am an innovative thinker and am trusted to make decisions that affect us both. It is only fair that I reciprocate by showing genuine support for my partner’s decisions as well!
Self-Reflection Questions:
- Do I actively build my partner’s self esteem, or unintentionally tear it down?
- Why do I feel as if I must call the majority of the shots in this relationship?
- How can I express more support for my partner’s judgment?
Take your answers and turn them into positive, resolute statements that give you concrete goals on which to focus immediately. Be honest, work hard, and watch yourself transform for the better!
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